Saturday, May 31, 2008
Strangely enough, though, it made me think about my life. Oh, sure, I was totally jealous of the size, shape and money of the girls on the big screen. They sure do have style-some of it way to out there for me, but so fun anyway. But in watching the various relationships and how they played out, it made me think about my own. I love my husband and don't tell him nearly enough. Of course we have our "things" that get on each other's nerves-(I actually listed about 3 things under this category, then erased them. You never know who reads these things!!!). But more times than not, I love my life with Nigel.
I like to make wishes on silly things. Mostly when the clock reads the same number all the way across like 3:33. Or when it is 4 consecutive numbers- 12:34. I don't really know why. Just always have done it. So I've always wished for the same thing every time, until that wish came true and then I moved on. I've done this for 3 wishes and now and they have all come true. First-"I wish I would find the man I am going to marry." Done. Second "I wish Nigel and I would get married." Done. Third, much further down the road, "I wish we would have a baby." Done. So what do you wish for when you have everything you wish for? Now I've moved on to wishing for silly and materialistic things. I mean, why not? "I wish we would win the lottery and never have to work again." It's worth a shot!
So go see Sex and the City and enjoy a night out with the girls. It will make you relax and take your mind off things, but maybe make you think a little, too. LOVE THOSE GIRLS!
Monday, May 26, 2008
Kingston had cereal and sweet potatoes for dinner but the way he was eating it, it sure did look like he was chewing bubble gum! He smacked and smacked and chomped and chomped! He was so cute. I swear I'm not giving him anything chunky yet. We think he has maybe watched us eat and is trying to immitate our mouth movements. We are hoping that he hasn't learned the smacking lips from us, too!
The boy does love some sweet potatoes!
Thursday, May 22, 2008
Why do people open their mouths and say really stupid things? About their friends?
Nigel is in Wilmington on work. He is hanging out with a lot of friends, old and new. Our friend Martin had become almost totally deaf in the last year or so. They are having a benefit at Red Dogs tonight to raise money for him to have surgery on his ears in an attempt to help him hear at least a little better. So Nigel ran into a friend who proceded to tell him that one of Nigel's best high school buddies told him that no one really understands why Nigel named his son what he did. Huh?
Here are my issues with this comment. First, why did Jamie (oops, did I say his name?) tell the Goat (oops again, but at least it's a nickname) that he didn't understand? Do we have to have an explanation for what we named our son? Do we not have the right to name him anything we want to? And, p.s., we do have a reason-a few of them in fact, thank you very much. Second, why did the Goat think he needed to tell Nigel what Jamie said? I mean, if Jamie doesn't like Kingston's name, does Nigel really need to know that? Some things are just better left unsaid. Finally, don't people realize that if you ever thought you knew what feeling defensive was like, try having a baby? I will defend my child until I die. I don't want to hear anyone say anything negative about him. Especially when he is but 5 months old. So give the kid a break. WE liked the name so WE named him Kingston.
"KINGSTON" is a name found in name books. KING is my maiden name. My dad's name is WinSTON. Nigel has been to the Jamaican town of KINGSTON on a surf trip with my brother.
Does anyone else want to ask why we named our precious little boy Kingston? Does it really matter? I know not everyone likes the name, but is there a name on this planet that everyone likes? I didn't think so.
Some people need to keep their mouths shut.
Sunday, May 18, 2008
Overall we had a great family day. I can't wait to do a lot more of all of the above. This is what it's all about! I'll post pics soon.
Saturday, May 17, 2008
I can already tell that Kingston is going to be the kid that has to be chased down to have his nose blown or face wiped off. He HATES it. We already battle and he is only 5 months old! He may end up being the kid that always has stuff crusted to his face!!
So I just put Kingston to bed, and after doing work with the snot-taker-outer (or nose bulb or suction thing or whatever you want to call it) he has settled in. I have a video monitor that I use when he is sleeping and it is so cute to see him with his little mouth puckered open so that he can breathe. He is usually a nose-breather but I guess it is too stuffy. His little mouth is opened into a little "O" as he breathes.
I have always said if he's breathing, he's cute. . . Pretty much.
Sunday, May 11, 2008
I had a great day today. It started off early when Kingston and I made my Mom's day by meeting her and my dad at church at 8:30. My favorite preacher from the past, Mr. Presnell, was back to preach this Sunday as a celebration of our church's 150th birthday. Now, I will admit, I don't go to church these days. I would go a lot more if Mr. Presnell was our preacher. I really love him. He speaks to me unlike any other preacher I've had since he was last here. The whole church issue is a blog for another day. . . So after church I spent some time with Mom and then headed home. When I got home, I was surprised by my Mothers Day gift. Nigel bought us 2 new bikes! He wants to buy a baby seat for Kingston but they were sold out and he wants me to pick one out that is the safest. (Anyone have any suggestions?) After that we went out to lunch at Red Drum. Nigel watched Kingston this afternoon so that I could go to Birthday Suits and spend my gift certificate that Mom had given me for Mothers Day on a bathing suit. Yeah, I tried again. It was just as painful this time as last. But, I did come away with a suit. It looks pretty good and I just kept reminding myself that it will only get better from here. I mean, I'm not going to gain any more weight this summer-if anything, I will lose it. So I am pleased with my suit and I can stop thinking about it. This evening we have just relaxed and Nigel cooked a lovely spaghetti dinner for us. Kingston went to bed early because he was exhausted and now we have the evening to ourselves.
What a great day! Now back to work tomorrow. Poo. Oh, well. At least I got to experience my new favorite holiday from the honoree's point of view! Happy Mothers Day to all of my great mommy friends. Hope you enjoyed your day as much as I did.
Friday, May 9, 2008
So anyway. . . From Chili Peppers we went to Lucky 12. I don't think I have ever gone out at home and known absolutely NO ONE in the whole bar. Well, it happened last night. Everyone there was college aged and so silly! I was totally entertained by the really young girls shakin their money-makers on the dance floor! I couldn't stop staring at the drunk college girls and guys pretty much getting it on right in front of me. One girl definitely thought she was on So You Think You Can Dance. She really wanted to be "licked like a lollypop" or however that song goes. Hilarious! There were some really short dresses (or long shirts with shorts so short underneath that it looked like a really short dress). I loved it. I think I had a huge smile on my face the whole time-and if you know me, you know that doesn't happen much!
Basically all of this to say that I am too old to be talking junk about some silly girls but it sure does make me feel a little younger!! So I'll keep at it. Call me if you want to go out and people watch some time!!
Monday, May 5, 2008
2. Kingston is napping like a champ! The last 2 days he has napped for over 2 hours at one time in the afternoon! I wish I could take credit for it but it seems he is just doing it on his own. Either way, I'll take it! He is such a good boy.
3. This morning, in addition to the boob milk that he ate, Kingston had a 6 oz. bottle before we left for work. This is the most I have ever fed him from a bottle at one time. He was sort of oozing milk out of his mouth but finished the bottle! He lasted 4 hours before he was ready to eat again-that is definitely a daytime record. AND for the last 3 days he has had sweet potatoes and rice cereal for dinner until I think he is going to pop! Wow, what a diaper I changed this morning. Let's just say he worked for most of the day in nothing but a diaper until Dad came with a change of clothes. (Oops. Mom was unprepared!) I'm sure he is gaining weight. I think I might go get him weighed at the Dr's office in a week or 2, just to check.
That's the update for now. Might have some good stuff tomorrow when Robyn (M-I-L) watches Kingston for the first time. Hmmmm. Things could get interesting.
Saturday, May 3, 2008
Until . . .
I tried to find a bathing suit. I am no longer a magician. If I were, I would poof this poofy belly away, never to be heard from again. No such luck. I went to look at suits today at Belk because I have a gift card there. I was just under the impression, having never worn a tankini until I was pregnant and even then only wore it a few times, that tankinis were made to cover your stomach so that no one would have to see the stretchmarks and saggy skin. I guess maternity suits are a little more A-line and full around the stomach area for obvious reasons. It never really even crossed my mind that non-maternity suits would be a lot more fitted in the tummy area. That is NOT what I need. Needless to say, I left Belk in a major huff. I wanted to throw myself in front of a car full of old ladies looking for a sale. (Totally kidding-I am not on suicide watch!)
I realize that there are a lot more bathing suits in the world and Belk is perhaps not the best place to look for one. I did, however, at least expect that something would give me the idea that I will be able to pull off a bathing suit this year. Not so much. These suits made me never want to wear one again in my life. But really, I guess the hunt begins now. Off to every suit store on the beach. Surely there is something I can cover this mess with. At least now I am a little better prepared for what I will see in the mirror.
And to top it all off when I got home my poor, clueless husband asked if I found anything and I grumbled and mumbled and said it was a disaster. The best thing he could suggest was, "you need to get to the gym more." And after seeing my face immediately followed with, "That was the wrong thing to say, wasn't it?"
Yep. Sure was. The only thing a man should say when a girl comes back emptyhanded from suit shopping is, "Just keep looking. You will find one you look really good in" and preferably he will offer to pay for it!
Note: Please don't comment that I look great and that it takes 9 months to gain baby weight so it should take that long to get it off and that I probably don't look as bad as I think, etc. I know all this. I am not really bummed on my body. Just the fact that I can't hide it like I want to!!!